The Daddy Little Fetish kink is a funny thing because it is simultaneously the most misunderstood and most accessible form of kinkiness. People either immediately love, or hate it. I’ve been told its disgusting and also that it is “not real kink” because it is “mild” (ha!). Ironically, the dual nature of its reception speaks volumes for the fetish itself. It is both gentle and harsh, kind and cruel, loving and evil.
The trouble with kinks or fetishes is that they are, well, fetishized and therefore generally divorced from the people they describe. Many times when people write about, or try to understand, kink they lose sight of the REAL PEOPLE behind the fetish.
“We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly. We grow partially. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present, and future mingle and pull us backward, forward, or fix us in the present. We are made up of layers, cells, constellations.” — Anaïs Nin
To clear up any confusion, the little girl is an adult woman, not an ACTUAL little girl.
Daddies can spoil his lil girl a bit and she doesn’t have to be a complete 24/7 submissive. But a Daddy can always be daddy to his little girl, easily. Daddies love to have their baby girl to be their prized possession and dirty whore. The thrill is owning her completely and having her do all the things Daddy teaches and trains her to do.
To me a Daddy/little girl relationship has nothing to do with age and more to do with the type of relationship the two have together. The Daddy is the nurturer, the safe one and the object of sexual obsession for this little girl.
Little girls tend to be very obsessive about their Daddies. One might even say needy for Daddy’s attention and his body. She may have a successful career, be top in her field but she knows Daddy is always there for her in their private world together. She looks to Daddy for love, comfort and He is her sexual desire. She looks up to Daddy, admires him, and trusts him.
Daddy feels needed, adored and worshiped by His little girl. He is almost everything to her. His little girl will do almost anything to please Daddy, to make him happy. She believes that her Daddy knows best and He knows that His little girl loves her Daddy more then anything. Daddy likes to use and experiment with His little girl, to teach her how to fulfill their relationship. He will always listen to her opinions, thoughts and feeling, because He is interested in her mind as much as His is her body. However, when there is an important decision to be made, His will be the final word.
The little girl is, honest and trustworthy to her Daddy and his private thoughts, desires and actions. It will be her place to relax, be naked and be free. She is his to lie with, play with, share with others and teach. She will make Daddy happy; to be a good girl for Daddy gives her the most pleasure.