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Pelvis Momentum Technique

Find a soft surface, the sofa or your bed, and sit on your knees. Begin by rubbing your penis. Use any technique that you like – full fist, play-doh, whatever; but add pelvic thrusts to your technique. This creates the sensation of intercourse, and you can vary the aggressiveness of your thrusts to increase or decrease pressure and speed.

Intercourse Style Imitation

You will need plenty of lube. Lay face down on a flat surface – it’s probably more comfortable on a soft surface, though if you prefer the floor, have at it. Prop yourself up on one arm, while you grab your penis with a backhand technique with the other. This is a good method to point that index finger down with. Use your pelvis to thrust in and out of the hand.

Now for the finale. This technique is important, but it doesn’t really fit into any specific category. So we’ll just list this in a category of its own. The technique itself isn’t very difficult, but it does require some set up.

Intercourse Style Masturbation

You will want plenty of lubrication and some plastic. You can use a plastic bag or even a sturdy condom if you like. I do recommend something bigger than a condom, though. Now, you can use the crevice between the cushions on your sofa, or you can use the space between your mattress and your box springs, depending on the amount of pressure you want. You’ll want to place the plastic in the open space – either the crevice or between the mattress and box spring. Put plenty of lubricant inside the plastic, but be careful not to get it on your stuff. Then, insert your penis and have at it. The sofa cushions provide less pressure, but may be a better starting point while you get the hang of the technique. The mattresses make for a tighter fit, so it’s more like a vagina.

Mix and match these techniques to find what works best for you. Don’t be afraid to try something new, just make sure you take any necessary precautions!

And Never try this alone!

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I get a lot of questions from guys wanting to increase the amount of ejaculate they can produce.For some reason, the ability to shower a girl with cum is highly desired. Not that it is a bad thing – just remember that most guys shoot about a teaspoon to tablespoon of ejaculate at a time.

There are a number of myths out there regarding increasing ejaculate. One is that the more you ejaculate the more of a man you are. The size of the ejaculate has nothing to do with being manly, viral, or fertile.

Now to the question, every man is different and the ejaculate size is based on a number of scientific reasons. So, those you cannot change. However, there are some tips to the trade.

First, refrain from ejaculating for a while before the big day. If you want it to be bigger – then don’t drain it prior to the moment you want to ejaculate. Time allows for your body to help store semen. So, don’t masturbate prior to when you plan to show it off (at least one day or two).

Second, learn to control your orgasm. Find ways to build up to orgasm – then hold off – build up to orgasm – hold off – etc. This process is like a collecting pool of ejaculate. So, the more you can refrain from ejaculating the more time your body can collect semen. Tantric sex is a great source of information regarding learning to control orgasm (and even become multiorgasmic – or learning to have orgasmic sensations without ejaculating).

Finally, some people will have additional benefits from increased protein drink and water intake. While there is no real proof to this – if it makes you mentally feel better – than try it.

Most people are aware that women are capable of having multiple orgasms, but far fewer seem to know that it’s possible for men to have them as well. The principle behind this is that ejaculation and orgasm are not the same thing. There is a difference between the pleasurable sensations of the orgasm and the physical event of ejaculation. In essence, you can have an orgasm without ejaculating, and you can ejaculate without having an orgasm.The trick is distinguishing between the two and learning to control both. To start with, you need to develop your sexual strength.

Strengthening the PC Muscle

The pubococcygeus is the hammock-like muscle hanging low in the perineum, the area between the scrotum and the anus. You can contract it by pretending to stop the flow of urine. To strengthen it, you have to work it out like any muscle. Here are three recommended exercises:

1) Quick squeeze: Squeeze your PC muscle as tightly as you can and hold it for 2 seconds, and then completely relax the muscle. That is one repetition. Rest 1 second between reps. Do 20-100 repetitions (add 10 reps per week).

2) Slow Squeeze: Squeeze your PC muscle as tightly as you can and hold it for 15 seconds, and then release slowly, completely relaxing the muscle. That is one repetition. Rest 5 seconds between reps. Do 10-25 repetitions (add 3 reps per week).

3) Long Squeeze: Squeeze your PC muscle as tightly as you can and hold it for a minimum of 60 seconds, and then release. That is one repetition. Rest 60 seconds between reps. Do 2-10 repetitions (add 1 rep per week).

Once the muscles are strengthened, you can learn to separate orgasm and ejaculation. What you have to do to achieve male multiple orgasm is to figure out exactly where your ejaculatory “point of no return” is, and what it feels like. Then when you get close to ejaculation, you hold back by slowing down or stopping by pulling out of the vagina. By squeezing the PC muscle before the “point of not return,” you may experience “mini-orgasms” that feel very pleasurable and enable you to continue having sex for an extended period of time.

Additional Techniques for Ejaculatory Control

1) Pressing the Million Dollar Point. This point is located on your perineum just in front of the anus. You will feel a slight indentation when you push at the right spot. When you approach ejaculation, take your finger and push it up into the Million Dollar Point all the way to the first joint of your finger. This will help delay ejaculation by interrupting the ejaculatory reflex. This technique is great because you can use it without having to withdraw your penis from the vagina.

2) Scrotal Tugging. As the name implies, either you or your partner simply pulls your testicles away from your body to delay ejaculation. This is accomplished by circling the top of your scrotal sac with your thumb and forefinger and pulling down firmly.

3) The Squeeze Technique. When you feel yourself getting close to orgasm, withdraw your penis from the vagina. Then place the first two fingers of either hand on the underside of the penis, place your thumb on the top, and then squeeze. You can do this yourself, or you can have your partner squeeze the head of the penis between her thumb and fingers. Since your penis is erect, it won’t really hurt if she gives it an intense squeeze.

You should practice these ejaculatory control techniques at least 3 to 5 times a week. Applying any or all of these techniques teaches your body to gain control over what is wrongly perceived as one of the most uncontrollable of impulses.

In addition to the PC muscle exercises and the additional techniques for controlling ejaculation, you also want to focus on breathing. Since the breath is the gateway to controlling your entire body, you need to practice strengthening and deepening your breathing patterns. Inhale through your nose and feel your lower abdomen expand at the navel area. While keeping your chest relaxed, exhale with some force to pull the lower abdomen back, as if you were pulling your navel back towards your spine. Notice also that your penis and testicles pull up while exhaling. Continue breathing this way between 20 to 35 times. Learning to control your breathing in this way will become essential to stopping yourself from ejaculating and to expanding the feeling of orgasm throughout your entire body.

Exercise to Separate Orgasm from Ejaculation

Lubricate your penis. Begin pleasuring yourself – not just your penis, but your scrotum and perineum. Become aware of your rate of arousal. Notice the tingling at the base of your penis, the stages of erection, and the changes in both your breathing and your heartbeat.

Stimulate yourself almost to the point of orgasm, and then stop. Breathe deeply and contract your PC muscle. You can also delay ejaculation by pressing on the Million Dollar Point, using the Scrotal Tug, or by squeezing the tip of your penis. (You will have to discover which of these techniques works best for you and keep practicing it.) Very important: pay close attention to your arousal and stopping in time – at least a few strokes before the “point of no return.”

If you’re finding it difficult to keep from ejaculating, keep squeezing and releasing your PC muscle several times. Stop for a few seconds and practice your deep breathing.

After you have peaked several times without ejaculating, stop. You should feel relaxed and energized. Take note of the sexual energy circulating in your body, which you will feel as a tingling or prickling.

It will take practice and dedication on your part to achieve male multiple orgasm. It probably won’t happen in a single sitting. Most men who practice the above exercises will begin to experience multiple orgasms within a week or two and will master them within three to six months. The more you gain control over your body, the easier it will become to climax again and again!

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Sit, recline, or lie so your penis points straight up in the air. Grip it relatively low, near the base, and make fairly short, fast strokes. If you stroke with a slightly circular motion, you’ll find that your penis head “whips” back and forth. The idea is to find the exact stroking rate that matches the sympathetic resonant frequency of your penis,  guys with shorter penises will have to go faster to get the proper action. You’ll know you are at the right stroking rate when the head whips back and forth with a motion opposite that of your hand. If your penis is very hard and/or short the opposing motion might not be apparent, but you should still be able to feel the inertia of your penis “fighting” your hand. You should not have to use a great deal of force to achieve the sensation, the timing is the most important factor.
This method can be very messy! When you ejaculate, your semen can break up and  fly anywhere. You might want to spread out a large sheet so you’re free to go for maximum splatter.

This one is great if you like to massage your scrotum with one hand while you masturbate with the other. If you’re right-handed, instead of holding your scrotum from the left side, cross your wrists (left wrist on top) so you’re grabbing your scrotum from the right side. You may have to bend your body to the right to get the best position. If you’ve never done this before, it will feel like someone else is holding your scrotum. Tip: As you masturbate with the other hand, press your fingertips and thumb into the cracks between your scrotum and each thigh, and gently massage those areas with slow, rhythmic movements.

A book called “Masturbation, Tantra and Self Love” by Margo Woods.   Moves the reader away from the notion of basic, everyday masturbation and through Tantric practices, she guides the reader into self love. Well, let me tell you that this book has become a bible for me.

I start each day with a self-love ritual that lasts approximately 30 minutes. My goal is to raise the level of erotic energy in my body so that I am on the verge of ejaculation. I then “kneel in the flame” for as long as I can, allowing the energy to fill me up. Oftentimes, by this point, seminal fluid is flowing out of my penis. I do breathing exercises and often concentrate on my “third eye,” the spot in the center of my forehead. I also count each deep breath I take. All of this breathing, counting, and concentrating on my “third eye” is a way to consciously control the erotic energy that is trying to push me toward ejaculation. But instead, I hover at the brink, filling my body with this wonderful, healing energy. Finally, I let go, usually when the energy has begun to subside on its own. (I must admit that there are times when my body has its way and I ejaculate, thus ending this meditation.)

Once my genitals have relaxed, I massage two areas: the soft spot in my perineum between my scrotum and my anus, and the soft spot between my anus and my tailbone. I massage each of these two areas in a circular motion 81 times. (The number “81″ has significant numerological importance to those into numerology. I don’t happen to be one of those people.) Counting to 81 helps me to concentrate on the meditation, rather than losing myself in the ecstatic sensations. Yet the sensations I experience send me into orgasmic delight. My body shakes and dances as the energy that has been stored up in my pelvis is released to the rest of my body. Often this massage leaves me limp and breathless. The neat thing is that if I have the time, I can start the process all over again. Since there was no depletion due to ejaculation, my “humming” body is more than happy to go to higher erotic states. Later in the day, I will have at least one self-love session that leads to an ejaculation. At other times, I will live in this energy for several days as I add to it each morning. The sensations careening through my body are difficult to describe as I go about my day filled with this incredible energy. Suffice it to say it allows me to live in erotic energy 24 hours a day.

In conclusion, I have often read that you cannot hope to love another completely until you learn to love yourself. I would add to this that one of the best ways to learn loving yourself is to learn how to make love to yourself.