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Jamie and I have been close friends since we were both in the eighth grade, we are now in the eleventh grade, and both of us have pretty much blossomed into young womanhood. We have always shared are most intimate secrets; but, I guess never our deepest desires.

One evening after softball practice I was at her house using her shower to cleanse the dirt and smell of practice away. After I dried off, Jamie handed me a robe to wear while we watched TV in her bedroom. She had already showered and was brushing her hair at her table mirror and wearing a loosely tied robe. I was laying oh her bed right next to where she was sitting. We were talking about to openly gay girls at school and were wondering what they did when they made love. She began to mimic how she thought they did it and began rubbing her pussy with the handle of her hair brush. To my surprise I became instantly turned on by her actions, it was fascinating watching her rub her hairy pussy, and she could tell that my eyes were fixed on pussy. She grabbed another hairbrush and hurried over to the bed and rolled beside me. She handed me the other hairbrush and said, Here you do it too. I took the brush and began to rub my pussy with it. At first we were laughing and giggleing, thinking we were making fun of the two lesbians. But, withing a few minutes both of us began feeling immense pleasure, and began inserting the handles into our pussies. I was really getting turned, and she was to moaning, and moving her hips on the handle. We both began to finger our clits and kept the motion going until we both had an orgasm. We both layed there catching our breath, and both of us realized that we had just had a great experience together.

We have kept on with our little private sessions and are now in our first year college. It is fun to have such a good friend.

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I awoke to the gentle shoving on my shoulder, somewhat irritated that someone had disturbed my sleep Wake up sleepy, it’s almost noon. It was my girlfriend Nat, and not being nearly as hungover as me was determined to get me up and about. Arrg, give me a few minutes please? I said trying to get my head straight. Well get up and get dressed, Cynthia and Tammy are on their way over; we’re going swimming. Ok I’m up I said, trying to focus on where I was and what happened the night before. I realized that I had fallen asleep on her couch last night after we had been fooling around, and that I was buck naked. Well get up then, we can’t have you lying around naked with friends here and went upstairs. No, we can’t have that I thought as I fell back asleep. I was having the most wonderful dream about Nat’s gorgeous naked body, when I heard voices and was stirred awake yet again. This time, however it was not only Nat but her two friends as well. And I was naked under my blanket sporting a full erection! Late night eh Darrell? Tammy asked. Yeah; what did you to him Nat? Cynthia questioned. Never you mind. said Nat. As her friends giggled and whispered to each other Nat leaned in close and whispered in my ear I’ll bet you would be really embarrassed if I pulled this blanket off. I sure would I whispered back, especially right now. What do you mean? she asked. Reach under the blanket and know why. I replied. Smiling she crept under the blanket beside me and lay her head on my shoulder, and at the same time her hand ran down my stomach and closed around my still hard penis. The feeling of her small hand gripping my hardness sent a jolt through my entire body. I tried not to groan as she whispered in my ear Wow, it’s really big right now; likely because you didn’t get off last night. Then Nat began to masturbate me. She slid her hand up and down my penis, chaffing the swollen head with the foreskin making me harder than it seemed possible. I tried not to let on what was going on but then said it feels to good, and let my head fall back on the couch and went with the feeling. By this time her friends had stopped chatting and aware that something was going on,were fixed on Nat and what her hand was busy with under the blanket. What’s going on under there Nat? Tammy asked. Oh just finishing some business from last night she replied. The other two girls were silent as they watched the motion of Nat’s hand under the blanket. Should we wait upstairs? asked Cynthia. Would you rather? asked Nat. No response. I in the meantime, was enjoying one of the best hand-jobs ever. Nat’s hand slid up and down my shaft bringing me ever closer to orgasm; with two of her friends watching! All this time the blanket hiding my nakedness had been slipping off me. At first I tried to re-adjust but gave up after a while, not really caring anyway; it felt to good! I finally opened my eyes when the cover fell off me and left me exposed with Nat’s hand still stroking my erection. I looked at her two friends and found them looking intently at what she was doing to my penis. Tammy was smiling and Cynthia was wide-eyed, but both were staring intently at Nat’s hand sliding up and down my very hard penis. Wow Cynthia said.He’s really hard. And he’s really big! Tammy blurted out.My boyfriend’s thing is only half that big! Yes he is pretty big aren’t you sweetie? Nat asked,gripping his penis harder. Oh yeah! I said, jerking into her hand. Can I touch it Nat? asked Cynthia. It’s ok with me ; how ’bout you babe? I don’t care, just don’t stop Nat moved over and her friend took his penis in her hand. How do I do it Nat? she asked. Just grip it tight and stroke up and down,sliding the skin over the tip and back down she said ,kissing his lips. Like this? she asked, looking mesmerized at the hard flesh in her hand. MY boyfriend doesn’t have that extra skin on his Tammy noted; and there’s no thick hair on his balls, how come? That’s because he still has his foreskin and he shaves his balls for me Nat replied. The hand-job that Cynthia was giving me was driving me close to orgasm, and I let her know. Nat just said Keep going. At the same time this was going on Tammy let her hands wander down to fondle and caress my balls, driving me over the top. As one girl’s hand masturbated my penis and another played with my balls I came; HARD! As my hips bucked my penis into one hand all the time feeling the other cupping my balls,I exploded a blast of cum all over my stomach and chest. All three girls wowed at the amount of semen and as I calmed down Nat bent down to lick the head of my softening penis clean and said That was cool.

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There was a boy that I knew who was about three years older than me. His mother and my mother had been friends for years. Because he was older, we never really hung out very muh together. One day I was at his house. We were in his bedroom and he was going to take a shower. There was nobody home, so he undressed right there and walked naked to the bathroom, which I thought was pretty daring. He returned a few minutes later, toweling his wet hair. I could tell that he was sort of enjoying showing off like that. As he stood there, he started to get an erection. His penis just started to push up, becoming big and thick. He just grinned. I guess that I looked kind of embarrassed, because he asked me if I had ever seen a guy with an boner before, like any of my friends. I admitted that I hadn’t. He said that it wasn’t a big deal between friends. He said that I could take my clothes off too, and be naked, and show him my erection if I wanted. Not wanting to be all prudish about it, I went ahead and took off my clothes. I got an erection, too. He said that was impressed, not expecting mine to be as big as it was. He came over and sat on the bed where I was, and he just reached out to feel my boner. He said that I could feel his too, so I tried that. It was pretty cool doing that with each other. He said something about how good it felt to suck on another guy and he did that to me. I was suprised by that, too. It really felt good, though, as his mouth went up and down on my dick. When he pulled back, he said that I should try sucking on his dick. I nerviusly did that, and discovered that it was pretty neat and that I didn’t mind it at all. We played with each other’s boner a little more, and inally he said that he would like to do it with me. I wasn’t quite sure what he meant. He put some hand lotion on his erection and had me lay back on the bed. Then he pulled my legs up around his hips and took a hold of his penis. Very slowly he pushedit into my anal opening. It felt unbelievably exciting feeling him doing that, and it made my boner harder than ever! He slolwly started to slid his dick in and out, breathing hard. I was so excited that I started squirting. When he saw me doing that, he squirted inside of me. Afterwards I was kind of suprrised about having doen that with him, as another boy, but I really liked it. For about the next four years he and I would sometimes have sex and I loved it!

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I learned to masturbate when I was eleven. I would do It while in the shower. I started by letting the warm water cascade down my young body. Then I would adjust the water so it would fall in a clustered stream and hit the sensitive glands just above the circumcision scar, right on the head if my young cock. It was bliss. I can remember the feeling the first time I came this way. The pleasure was beyond belief. My legs just gave out from under me. It was the greatest feeling I had so far ever experienced. I continued jerking off this way for some time. At around thirteen I started the rubbing technique, I would lie on the bed and grind my hard cock against it until I came hard into my briefs. Though this was a tad messy because the cum would seep through my underwrar, it felt sooo good. It was during this phase in which I needed more visual stimulation, so I went searching through my parent’s room. I went through drawer after drawer until I found what I was looking for. Jackpot, I had found my fathers stash of dirty mags. It was great, every day aftet school I would Jrerk off to some hot cock getting sucked or hot guy sticking his fat cock into a girl’s vag or even in her ass. I soon got a little bit bolder, instead of rubbing myself against the bed I now whipped my respectable six inch cock out and jerked it until I came all over my stomach. One day when I was home alone jerking my cock in my parents room, the door flies open and threre is my dad standing there. I panicked, I grabbed the blanket to try to cover myself and the dirty mags up. He simply said don’t worry about it, it’s perfectly naturual. Well needless to say I was very embarrassed. He stood there and said look, you’re mother won’t be home for a few hours. I’ll show you its ok. He started to undress, all I could do was stare in disbelief, speechless. Now I have seen him without his shirt on, I’ve even seen him in his boxer breifs, but never had I seen him totally nude. He pulled down his underwear and his full, what looked to be about nine inches popped up and smacked his hard IIsix pack abs. I was in heaven. He sat down beside me on the bed and removed the blanket that wad hiding my six inch cock. He said to go ahead and start jerking it. I grabbed my dick and he took my hand and said no, jerk mine and ill take yours. It was the first time I held another guys dick in my hand and it was fantastic. It was hard, yet like velvet. I cupped his balls they seemed so big and heavy. He had so much pubic hair too. We were jerking eachother’s cock and I was ready to explode, so I said dad I’m ready to come, he leaned over my cock and took it in his mouth. This totally surprised me but I was exploding with spurt after spurt of come going down my dad’s throat. I hadn’t experienced an orgasm like that since my first in the shower. I loved it . When I came back to reality, my dad asked me how it was? Naturally I said it was awesome. He said great, now get over her and help your dad out. I gladly obliged, and he guided my head down to his huge cock. I could smell his manliness, I’m not sure how to describe it, but I knew I liked it. I started to lick the head right under the glands and he moaned. I then put the entire head in my mouth, this made him moan again. He then grabbed my head and forced his large dick into my throat. I couldn’t handle his size and immediately started to gag so he let up a little and let me explore his cock. I run my touched up and down and all over, I even licked his balls. He once again took my head in his hands and started to hump my face. I could hear his breathing get heavier and his dick started to feel even harder, he was driving into my mouth faster. He moaned loudly and he screamed YA I’M CUMMING. Then I felt him creaming down my throat. I couldn’t handle all his come and it started leaking out of my mouth as I tried as hard as I could to keep swallowing. He withdrew his softening dick from my spent mouth. I looked up at him with a huge grin on my face. He looked back and said you did good son, you did daddy proud. He said we shouldn’t tell your mom about this and I simply said, dah. He said go get cleaned up, your mom will be home soon. And that was that. I have another story for another time.

If your problem is not lasting long enough to even satisfy you or your lover then you should check out Premature Ejaculation in our Health section; this article is more about improving an already adequate performance…

One common goal amongst virtually all guys is to last longer during sexual intercourse. Unfortunately, most men can’t last as long as they would like and feel inadequate because of it. The first thing that needs to be understood is that the state of mind a person is in has a huge effect on their sexual performance. Getting all uptight and worried is going to do you no good; neither is having a partner that gets really angry about it. Both parties need to work together to improve the situation, and the most important thing is to stay positive.

The first principle behind the techniques and suggestions listed below is the man’s ability to know his own body. By understanding how his body works and how his excitement rises, he should be able to learn how to pace himself better. It is key to know when to slow down to allow your excitement to drop enough so that you can “re-group” and then pick up the pace again. The second principle has to do with decreasing the sensitivity of the penis. By decreasing the sensitivity, it will take more stimulation to achieve the excitement necessary for climax. The following techniques and suggestions should help boost his sexual stamina, but they are not miracle cures, it will take patience and the right attitude to make things better.

Start & Stop Technique

The primary principle of this technique is to stimulate the penis until near ejaculation, and then stop stimulating to allow the level of excitement to drop. This exercise can be performed alone, or with a partner, and should be repeated 3 to 5 times per session. After 2-6 weeks of using this technique you should notice an improvement in your sexual stamina and will eventually not even have to use it to outlast your partner.

Squeeze Technique

Right before you feel you are about to ejaculate, approximately three or four strokes away, stop stimulating and squeeze the base of your penis by wrapping your thumb and index finger around it. Apply firm pressure, focusing on the urethra, the tube running along the underside of the penis. This lessens the tension and holds back the ejaculatory response. Be sure to apply pressure a few strokes before ejaculating … if you wait too long, it may be too late! You should be able to apply this technique anywhere along the shaft of the penis, as long as it squeezes the urethra.

Regular Masturbation

A great method for boosting sexual stamina and releasing sexual tension is regular masturbation. By masturbating more often, you can train yourself to become more used to the stimulation. As you get more and more used to it, it should start taking you progressively longer to climax.

Wearing Condoms

Many couples have claimed that wearing condoms significantly reduces the stimulation of intercourse for both partners, but especially the male. If you are not already using condoms to protect against STD’s and pregnancy, try wearing them to increase your stamina. If necessary, consider wearing a thicker condom, it should make a large difference in the amount of stimulation that you feel.

The formal definition of male ejaculation is “the release of semen from the penis”. During sexual stimulation, semen collects in the ejaculatory ducts located where the vas deferentia join seminal vesicles within the prostate gland. When stimulation reaches climax, a spinal reflex causes contractions to the muscles within the penis, urethra, and the prostate gland. These contractions propel the semen through the urethra and out of the tip of the penis. Although male ejaculation and orgasm occur simultaneously in most cases, they are not the same process. An orgasm, specifically, is the rhythmic muscular contractions that are a release of accumulated sexual tension and result in an intensely pleasurable sensation.

The rhythmic contractions occur initially at 0.8-second intervals, just as in women, and account for the spurting action of the semen during ejaculation. The intervals between contractions become longer and the intensity of the contractions tapers off after the first three or four contractions. Semen usually takes a few seconds to appear … ejaculatory inevitability (the point at which stopping is impossible) … because of the distance the fluid has to travel. During ejaculation, the sphincter of the urinary bladder is tightly sealed to keep urine from mixing with the semen, as well as making sure that the fluid travels forward, or out.

There are a surprising 20 million sperm/ml of seminal fluid, and average ejaculation consists of 1.5-5ml. Semen contains aboutonia, ascorbic acid, blood-group antigens, calcium, chlorine, cholesterol, choline, citric acid, creatine, deoxyribonucleic acid, fructose, glutathione, hyaluronidase, inositol, lactic acid, magnesium, nitrogen, phosphorus, potassium, purine, pyrimidine, pyruvic acid, sodium, sorbitol, spermidine, spermine, urea, uric acid, vitamin B12, and zinc — but all in very modest quantities. Some of this is designed to nourish the semen enroute, while other ingredients are designed to neutralize the acidic environment of the vagina (which would normally be inhospitable to Sperm). In case you are wondering, most of these ingredients are indeed very healthy, and an average ejaculation contains only about 15 calories.

Since orgasms and ejaculation are separate, it is possible to have either without the other.

In situations where ejaculation occurs on its own, there are two main causes. In the first, involuntary ejaculation occurs during sleep, and is known as nocturnal emission (formally) or a wet dream (in slang). The second main cause is known as Premature Ejaculation), which is a sexual condition in which a man consistently feels he has little or no control over the timing of his build up to ejaculation.

Orgasm can occur without ejaculation. Retrograde ejaculation is a condition where the bladder’s sphincter does not close off properly during ejaculation, so semen flows into the bladder. It is commonly found in men who have multiple sclerosis, diabetes, or after some types of prostate surgery. Before you get worried, it can also occur occasionally in men who do not have any serious problems. It is not physically harmful, but it can render the man infertile and he may have a different sensation during ejaculation. This condition is also known as a “dry come” because the man may experience orgasm, but no semen is released from the penis.

The main reason a woman should masturbate is because it feels good. Women with strong sex drives may masturbate frequently, but a woman should not forgo masturbating just because she does not have a strong sex drive. Even if she has no desire for partner sex, she should still enjoy giving herself pleasure. The fact that pre-adolescent girls masturbate proves that hormonally induced sex drives are not the only reason to masturbate; young girls do it for no other reason than it feels good. There is nothing wrong with a woman giving herself pleasure on a daily basis, or as often as she desires. For masturbation to be pleasurable it does not have to end in orgasm. Masturbation may involve nothing more than placing your hands against your vulva when you go to sleep at night, simply because it feels good.

There are times in all relationships when a partner is not available for sex when you desire it, even when they sleep beside you. Couples frequently have different levels of sex drive, and expectations regarding physical intimacy. This is why women frequently masturbate secretively in the shower, or masturbate silently in the early morning hours while their sleeping partner lies beside them. Masturbating when you have a partner is normal and a woman should not feel ashamed for doing so. Most women have probably done it at some point in their relationship. It is often a necessity. Forgoing masturbation and sexual pleasure when you need it simply because you have a partner does harm to you and your relationship, because you will slowly begin to blame them for your sexual frustration. As your sexual frustration grows, so does your frustration with the relationship.

If a woman does not know how to sexually satisfy herself, then how can she expect her partner to know? Learning about her own body, how it responds and then teaching this to her partner is a great way to ensure that she gets the most out of her whole sexual experience. Don’t be shy ladies … share that knowledge and you will never regret it!

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This form of masturbation conjures up all sorts of misconceptions. Some assume that a person who enjoys anal play is perverted or immoral; others believe that partaking in it would somehow compromise their sexual orientation. There are also those who keep the ‘back door’ closed because opening it might make them feel too vulnerable. It is easy to see that perception can have a major impact on a person’s experience with anal exploration.

Being open to anal play is an indication that a person feels comfortable with his or her body. It also suggests that they don’t let outside influences affect the expression of sexuality that feels natural to them. With this spirit of openness, this article will focus on anatomy, sex toys, tips, and methods as they relate to anal masturbation. The information will apply to both men and women, apart from the section about prostate stimulation.

The Anus

The anus is a bodily orifice that is rich in sensitive nerve endings. The primary purpose of the anus it is to eliminate waste from the body (see Sexual Anatomy ). It is an anti-posterior slit in the skin, meaning that it runs from outside of the body inwards. It is one part of a complex system that combines voluntary and involuntary contractions of muscles and other sphincters. The anal canal, which is situated between the rectum and the anus, is about 4 centimetres long; the length varies among men and women, but women’s canals are usually shorter.

The tissue of the anus is very thin compared to the vagina and can be torn if forced. The anus is a one-way valve, meaning that it passes feces out and is not normally designed to allow things in! It is therefore very important to take things slowly, never to force penetration and to be mindful not to over-stretch it. Read our articles on Anal Intercourse , Anal Fingering and for more detailed information.

Does Anal Masturbation Hurt?

Anal masturbation creates a wholly unique sensation. At first, it might seem uncomfortable, but that’s because the sensation is so distinctive. Moreover, a tremendous amount of tension and nervousness can easily manifest in the constriction of the external sphincter; thus, the anus gets tightly clamped, making it difficult to pass anything through it. The best thing to do prior to play is to engage in an activity that can alleviate these stresses, like going for a run or getting a massage. If you follow all of our tips and it continues to feel uncomfortable, don’t be hard on yourself. It may not be an activity that is right for you at this time.

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Anal exploration plays a role in human sexuality, mainly because of the erotic pleasure it can bring. If a person is very aroused when they commence anal masturbation, they can experience quite a range of titillating sensations. With the right positioning, anal masturbation can indirectly excite a woman’s g-spot or man’s p-spot (prostate gland), even to the point of climax. There is also evidence that an anal orgasm can be experienced independently of clitoral/penile or g-spot/p-spot stimulation. Even just the idea of anal penetration can be highly arousing; its provocative reputation and unconventional role in the bedroom can be a real turn on.

There are other great reasons to try anal masturbation. As with any form of masturbation, it is essential to the development of a person’s sexuality to discover the sensations their body responds to, at a pace they feel comfortable with. Playing with the anus is also an excellent way to work on letting go of control and over-constriction; some people are so tightly wound that even a genital Orgasm is difficult to achieve!

Anal masturbation is perfect preparation for anal play with a partner, whether you’re the one that wants to introduce it or are working your way up to a partner’s request. Exploring the anal region on your own may also alleviate any embarrassment you might feel if someone else were there. Since relaxing and letting go is essential to pleasurable anal penetration, solo play may be the only way you gain more confidence at the onset.

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An even greater mystery to most people than Female Orgasm is female ejaculation. Although we may have heard stories about friends who can ejaculate, or who have been with women who can ejaculate, many of us have never actually experienced it first hand. When asked to describe the ejaculations, responses are often quite similar, “It’s liquid, it’s clear, it’s wet, and it squirts”. Beyond this, the details have always been quite sketchy.

Let’s begin by understanding what the elements of the ejaculate are. The four main ingredients are Glucose, prostatic acid phosphatase (an enzyme which is characteristic of the prostatic component of semen), urea and creatinine. The last two ingredients are commonly found in urine, but are in lower levels than in urine. So there is some urine in the ejaculate. Some studies conclude that in some women the ejaculate is more like urine, and in other women it more like a prostate fluid. Until this question is answered fully, its safest to assume that it is a bit of both. The quantity of ejaculate can range from a few drops, to a shower of it.

Where does the ejaculate come from? There are several theories on this, but remaining constant amongst all of them is that female ejaculation comes from G-spot Stimulation. When the G-spot is stimulated over a period of time, the spongy tissue that creates this area fills with fluid. Women who can ejaculate often hold back, thinking that it is urine. The exact source of the ejaculate is still debated by researchers, but it does appear to come out of the urethra (like urine) and/or nearby Skene’s Gland, so that is where the confusion takes place.

So what’s left? You might want to learn how to get someone to ejaculate, or how to do it yourself. Like exploring everything else new in your experience of sex, you should work towards it, but not put unnecessary stresses on yourself by making it your goal. Also, it is not known whether all women are able to ejaculate, so if you or your partner is unable to – don’t worry, but perhaps keep trying once in a while. As you already know, the ejaculate comes from the urethra or Skene’s Gland, so it feels a lot like urine.

Apart from those who love ‘golden showers’ (the fetish of urinating on, or being urinated on), many people do not feel comfortable enough to risk urinating on or around their partner. It may be a good idea to allow yourself or your partner some privacy to understand this function of their body; at the very least let your partner now that you are excited about it, not grossed out. That being said, great places to try this out include the shower or bathtub, in or near water, or on top of some old blankets that you don’t mind getting wet.

May is Masturbation Month!

So Celebrate Self Love 7 Days a Week!

This was the 11th year of San Francisco’s annual Masturbate-a-thon, a fundraiser for the nonprofit Center for Sex & Culture. First held in 2000, the event was created to normalize self-pleasure by bringing it out in the open. Dr. Carol Queen, one of the founders, said the goal is to make a charity masturbate-a-thon as mainstream as a walk-a-thon.That day still isn’t here. But about 250 people attended the event this year, including both masturbaters and voyeurs, some of whom had come from as far as Chicago to observe the action.

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