Happy Birthday!

That’s right…It’s my birthday weekend and I expect to have my cake and make you eat it too! I love it when it’s my birthday because that means hot ass birthday phone sex for me! Oh and presents, lots of presents…dildos, vibrators and lots of pussy licking. Oh yes! I wanna sit my swollen pussy and tight little ass right on my birthday cake and I want you to lick it right off. Can you handle that?


A little naughty food play phone sex for my birthday Daddy, please? Lick me until I’m clean, leave no crumbs and I’ll do anything you want next. You want to fuck that tight little ass? Plow my tight swollen cunt? Fill me up with your own cream frosting? Do what I want and get what you want, it’s that simple. I know, I know…I’m usually not so bossy but it IS my birthday…doesn’t that count for something? :p


6 foods to get you in the mood

1. Asparagus

You’re not alone if those fleshy green spears remind you of well.. you know.

This veggie’s phallic appearance no doubt has something to do with its legendary aphrodisiac status, but the goods are inside, too. Asparagus is rich in vitamin B6 and folate, both of which can boost arousal and orgasm.

And it also boost vitamin E, which stimulates sex hormones in both men and women.

2. Avocados

Energy and a healthy libido are crucial for great sex, and avocados can give you both. They’re loaded with minerals, monounsaturated fats (the good kind that protect the heart and lower cholesterol), and vitamin B6- all of which keep your energy and sex drive up.

They’re also a top source of omega-3 fatty acids, which naturally boost your mood, making you more likely to feel ready for bedroom action.

3. Chile peppers

Chile peppers can really spice things up- and not just in your mouth- thanks to capsaicin, a chemical that’s been shown to induce the release of endorphins in the brain, which creates a feeling of euphoria.

The potential payoff? Enhanced foreplay and hotter sex.

4. Chocolate

The sweet has long been linked to love and sex for good reason. It contains tryptophan, which helps the body produce serotonin, a natural feel-good chemical that may play a role in sexual arousal.

Chocolate also offers a hit of phenylethylamine, a stimulant thought to contribute to that lovey-dovey feeling. So, go ahead, indulge a little!

5. Licorice

This candy (sold conveniently in, um, whips) is thought to mimic the effects of estrogen and progesterone, critical hormones for normal reproductive and sexual function and response. Eating it may help you get in the mood- and stay that way more often.

Plus, enjoying this candy may reduce symptoms of PMS, a real perk both in and outside the bedroom.

But note: Don’t settle for just any licorice-flavored candy. Be sure to buy a variety that contains real licorice-root extract.

6. Oysters

It’s not the slippery feel or the singular taste of oysters that make them a sexy superfood. It’s zinc, which oysters are loaded with. The mineral helps the body produce testosterone, a hormone critical in regulating women’s and men’s libido and sexual function.

Research suggests that zinc can improve sperm count and swimming ability, and increase sexual potency in men.

For women, zinc may help ovaries- the source of estrogen, progesterone, and some testosterone- stay healthy, keeping you primed for bedroom action.

Call me, let’s get in the mood together!

fact or fiction

There are a lot of rumored libido boosters, but only some will actually help you get in the mood. We’ve separated the fact from fiction below.

Libido Booster: Oysters

Mostly fiction.

In theory, oysters contain testosterone-boosting iodine and zinc, and trace amounts of amino-acid-interacting “triggers” that should boost libido. Here’s the catch: you’d have to down about fifty of these famous aphrodisiacs for any real benefit. Binging on seafood is hardly attractive. Pumpkin seeds also contain that libido-boosting zinc. Fun note: pumpkin pie and lavender are listed among the most arousing scents for men; so eat the seeds and make a pie! Almonds, walnuts, arugula, and avocados are better food choices than raw oysters when it comes to eating for your sex drive. Even better? Cook your romantic meal together. Foreplay begins in the kitchen.

Libido Booster: Chocolate

Mostly fact.

Just make sure that it’s dark. Studies have shown that dark chocolate increases the levels of feel-good dopamine and its bioflavonoids open up blood vessels to improve blood flow. Should you choose to dip strawberries in that chocolate, the natural sugars in the fruit will give you a gentle energy boost. Dark chocolate and peanut butter is another combination to consider. The monounsaturated fats in peanut butter can heighten sexual arousal in women.

Libido Booster: Alcohol

Mostly Fact—if you order red wine.

A drink can reduce anxiety and help relax on date night, and studies have shown higher levels of sexual desire in women who drink a glass of red wine daily. Researchers suspect the red wine’s high levels of polyphenols widen blood vessels and subsequently allow for increased blood flow to key arousal areas. Be careful, however. Too much alcohol can act as a depressant and can dampen desire or impede sexual performance, so stick to just a glass or two.

Libido Booster: Garlic

Sort of fact—but not if you’re the only one eating Caesar salad.

Garlic contains allicin, which can help with the blood circulation necessary for an erection. Because of this, it has long been used as a natural remedy for impotence. Garlic’s physical-endurance-boosting aspects won’t necessarily trump bad breath with your date, however, so dine with caution. Other cooking flavors have benefits too: Saffron relieves pain and tension; its picocrocin content can also boost skin’s sensitive to touch. It may be an expensive spice, but it’s worth it. Chilies’ capsaicin also stimulates nerve endings and speeds up your heart rate.

Libido Booster: Grapes


The only libido boost you’ll get out of eating grapes in bed is the fun in spending time together. Pomegranate seeds, while messier, are potent with antioxidants and will get your blood flowing and are a more strategic fruit option. Eat a banana—seductively or not—for a high dose of potassium and vitamin B, which can help boost energy levels and regulate the release of sex hormones.

Libido Booster: Wearing Red


And it works both ways. Studies have found that the color red enhances men’s attraction to women, likely a subconscious turn-on related to fertility. In the animal world, male chimps are attracted to the redder females; most female chimps redden as they approach ovulation. For women, the color red signals status and power in a man. So maybe you should try the color-coordinated couple thing and both wear red.

Libido Booster: Sweat


Weird, but true: your partner’s sweat can boost your arousal. Catch a whiff of your partner during or after a workout and your levels of the stress hormone cortisol will increase. That said, hitting the showers after the gym is still recommended. Working out together has other in-the-bedroom payoffs: studies have shown that people who exercise consistently have better sex lives. An exercise routine can help you sleep better at night, too.

And Playing with one of our Girlz  is what many experts

consider the ultimate aphrodisiac!


fruit fucking

One of our dedicated callers submitted this info today, enjoy!

Materials Needed:

– Various fruits large and sturdy enough to withstand vigorous sex long enough to achieve orgasm
– A stop watch to determine how long it takes to come to orgasm with that particular fruit
– A drill auger to carve an erect cock sized hole into the fruit
– Barry White CD for getting in the ‘mood’
– A garbage bag to dispose of the used and violated fruit


(For length reasons for this article, I removed several fruits that I did indeed have sex with. I only included my more spectacular or controversial results.)


Time to Reach Orgasm:  6 Minutes 21 seconds

Sturdiness:  The hard exterior shell of the water melon withstood my affections quite well, but the same could not be said of the soft fleshy interior. By the time I came, the interior cavity was quite a bit larger than my own dick. The watermelon flesh is very soft on the inside, and is turned to pulp very quickly by a pounding dick.

The melon did crack a little as well, although it likely was my overzealous lovemaking that caused this, so I do not hold it against the watermelon.

Texture:  The watermelon’s rind felt very pleasurable on my dick  and it compensated for the lack of resistance on the interior of the melon. Also, the abundant water kept my dick lubricated quite adequately.

Final Impressions:  I really enjoyed my brief affair with the watermelon. I credit the hard-yet-yielding exterior rind and the lubricating water for making it a superior sexual partner. It did lose points for the too-soft interior though, so it is certainly not a perfect 10. I would also suggest to not get too rough with the watermelon, or it may crack open. A little spanking is ok, just don’t go overboard.

Passion Fruit

Time to Reach Orgasm:  Did not achieve climax

Sturdiness:  This fruit has the most misleading name ever. First of all, it was the smallest fruit that I had sex with. It was just barely big enough to support a hole that would take in my dick. Secondly, it was far too soft and mushy to be appropriate for physical expressions of love. The passion fruit basically turned to mush after only 30 seconds of thrusting.

Texture:  Soft, mushy, and kind of slimy. The gooey texture was sexually unappealing and was a mood killer. The juices were also somewhat acidic, and they burned my pee hole. The passion fruit also stained my dick an unsightly yellow color which would not come out for days.

Final Impressions:  The passion fruit is a very inferior lover with an inappropriate name. I thought: how could I lose with passion fruit? I was wrong. It is too small, and it is just too weak to withstand all but the most timid lovemaking session. Its slimy texture was just not attractive either. Take it from me: it is not appropriate to have sex with a passion fruit.


Time to Reach Orgasm:  8 Minutes 46 seconds

Sturdiness:  Truthfully I had sex with two different cantaloupes. The first cantaloupe I had relations with fell apart. I am not averse to rough sex at times and I guess I got a little too carried away with cantaloupe #1; so much so that it broke into several pieces. After that I realized that I would have to make sweet, soft tender love to the cantaloupe; to be a gentle and caring and attentive lover. To cantaloupe #2 I was all of those things and more.

It survived the ordeal relatively unscathed, and the integrity of the ***** hole was such that I was almost tempted to put the cantaloupe in the fridge and save it for round 2, once I had recovered my stamina. It was kind of slimy with cantaloupe juice and semen though, so I decided to dispose of it.

Texture:  The cantaloupe had a very pleasing, smooth texture to it. Out of all the fruits I had, I think the cantaloupe feels the closest to a human woman. It did have seeds in the core, but they were very soft did not in any way scratch my *****. Also the cantaloupe skin is a bit rough so I made sure the ***** hole had a bit of a flair at the open end to avoid chafing.

Final Impressions:  Overall the cantaloupe is an outstanding sexual partner. It is a fairly solid fruit with a smooth feel. You do have to keep in mind though that any rough stuff will likely result in the cantaloupe falling apart. Make love to the cantaloupe as you would a sophisticated lady and not a 5 dollar hooker and you will have an evening to remember.

This guy really takes his fruit fucking to a new level. If you have your own stories or would like to experiment with one of the girlz call!

public flashing

True Confessions

Flashing outside the window


My boyfriend and I were alone in my place one afternoon, and we decided to get naughty. After a while of petting and cuddling, he carried me to the bed and we started making out.

We stripped each other’s clothes and got to play. Half way, my boyfriend wanted to try something new. So I knelt down against the window and he took me from behind.

It felt really good and I held the window grills for support. A minute or two into this and my fingers accidentally pushed the unlatched window open.

I wanted to pull it shut but just as I was about to do that, I saw my sexy neighbor in his place through his window. He was in his room and could easily see me if he turned towards me. I felt a sudden rush of sexual excitement, and nudged the window until he could get a better view.

It was a minute or two before my neighbor faced me. He was shocked to see me, and I just pretended like I didn’t notice him! There I was, totally naked, making out with my guy, and being watched by another man. It felt so hot and I ended up cumming quite a few times.

My beaming boyfriend actually thought it was his male prowess that had turned me on! Since that day, I’ve always preferred that position over all others!

-Paula, 21

Flash for the room boy

I had never ever flashed in public in my life, and it was a secret fantasy of mine. I was on a vacation with my husband, and was taking a shower after a long afternoon at the beach. My husband had taken a trip down to the hotel bar and I was all alone.

I heard the bell ring, and assuming it was my husband, I put on the bathrobe and opened the door.

To my surprise, it was a room boy who came by with fresh towels and bed sheets. As I had already opened the door, there was no point in asking him to go out again. So I told him to finish it up soon. He started changing the sheets, and I went out to the balcony. All of a sudden, I felt a shiver of excitement run down my spine. I knew just what I wanted to do. I was excited and yet, scared. I called out to the guy and told him to clean the entire room instead of just changing the sheets.

About ten minutes into the cleaning, I dropped the book I was reading and pretended like I had fallen asleep on the reclining chair. He looked at me in my short bathrobe that barely concealed my legs, and looked away immediately. A few minutes passed, and I turned sideways to face him. As I moved, I undid the knot that held my bathrobe together. I was completely excited, but kept my eyes almost shut tight. My bathrobe slipped down to my waist and there I was, completely topless in front of a guy I had never seen in my life!

He kept staring at me occasionally, and it felt so good. After a while, I pretended like I woke up. I didn’t bother tying up my bathrobe this time. I was feeling all horny and courageous by now! I started speaking to him, and I slowly tied the bathrobe up right in front of him. He couldn’t take his eyes off me.

I tipped him, and he thanked me with a wide grin. But boy, I bet he didn’t know how excited he made me!

-Ema, 24

Flashing at a sleepover

I’m a 27 year old guy, and am quite busy with my own life. About a year ago, I bumped into two girls who were my classmates back in college. We were very good friends, and it was great fun to catch up after so long. We decided to go out for drinks, and as luck would have it, we were all a bit tipsy. They asked me to spend the night at their place as it was a couple of blocks away, as long as I slept on the couch!

We got to their place, and I saw that it was a studio apartment. We spoke for a while, and decided to turn in for the night. I fell into a deep sleep in no time. I didn’t know how long I slept, but I heard a thud and suddenly woke up. I saw the bathroom light up, and I saw my friend go in. She left the door slightly open, and I could see her standing in front of the mirror. She could definitely see me if she turned around. I half closed my eyes and stared at the bathroom. To my disbelief, she pulled down her top and just stood in front of the mirror. I didn’t know whether to look or not, but I stared at her helplessly. Was she flashing at me?!

She stood in front of the mirror for a few minutes, pulled her top back up and got back into bed. I was perplexed, but I was so turned on. I didn’t know if it was intentional, but I just wanted to do something reckless. As soon as she got into her bed, I immediately walked into the bathroom and just stood there. I looked at her through the door, and could see that she was only pretending to be asleep. Her friend was facing the other way and couldn’t see me. I took off my tee shirt, and in a maddening move, slipped my pants off. I stood there in my boxers and looked at her. I could see that she was still peeping. Before I knew it, I slipped my boxers off and stood stark naked.

I looked at her again, and this time, she was looking back at me! Scared at first, I stared at her for a few seconds and got back into the bathroom. I left the door wide open, and started putting my clothes back on. I was so turned on, but was too confused to try anything funny. I came out of the bathroom, and she was standing right there. We immediately started kissing, and before we knew it, we were having sex on the couch. Talk about an unexpected flash at a sleepover!

-Steven, 27

Public flashing can happen when we least expect it, and at times, it really can be a huge turn on. And the surprising part, you might just find yourself flashing when you least expect it.

Do you have a public flashing streak in you?

Pomegranates acts like Viagra?

Pomegranates have long been celebrated as both delicious and nutritious. Pomegranates were symbols of fertility in Grecian culture, and appear in the Bible as a fruit of royalty. The vibrant red jewel-like fruit and potent juices are recognized for having anti-cancer properties and have one of the highest concentrations of antioxidants found in any fruit. Now, new scientific research indicates that a glass of pomegranate juice a day may be as potent in Viagra in assisting men with erectile function.

pomegranate-openIn the first clinical study of its kind, researchers found that men with erectile dysfunction who consumed one cup of pomegranate juice a day experienced stronger reactions when compared to drinking a placebo juice. The study was a “crossover” study, where the same group of men took both the pomegranate juice and the placebo juice over different four-week periods. This allowed the study to investigate the efficacy of pomegranate in each man. About half of the men found erections easier to maintain while drinking pomegranate juice. The juice may help increase blood flow to the penis, the essential physiological response needed for erections and sexual pleasure.

According to study done at the University of Southern California, “These findings are very encouraging as they suggest there is a non-invasive, non-drug way to potentially alleviate this quality of life issue that affects so many men. For men with Erectile Dysfunction, it is important to maintain a healthy diet and exercise. Drinking pomegranate juice daily could be an important addition to the diet in the management of this condition.”

Pomegranate juice is increasingly available in all major grocery stores. You can also enjoy the healthy benefits of the whole fruit. The rich juice will stain, however, so some caution is recommended as you separate the juicy seeds from the white rind. One great method is opening up the fruit while submerged in water. The seeds will sink, the white membrane will float. Once you have opened the entire fruit, simply drain the water and enjoy the healthy and vibrant red seeds.

Of course, no one is recommending that you replace your trusted Viagra with pomegranate juice. Further research is needed, and will surely reveal more health-giving properties to benefit men and women alike. Meanwhile, why not treat yourself to a tall glass of ruby red pomegranate juice? The health benefits are well established, and you may find that you get some unexpected sexual benefits as well.

Aphrodisiac Food List

There hasn’t always been an agreement upon what foods were actually aphrodisiacs or “anaphrodisiacs” (decrease potency). But the ancient list included Anise, basil, carrot, salvia, gladiolus root, orchid bulbs, pistachio nuts, rocket (arugula), sage, sea fennel, turnips, skink flesh (a type of lizard) and river snails.

The ancients suggested you steer clear of dill, lentil, lettuce, watercress, rue, and water lily.

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A very popular aphrodisiac with many culinary uses. It has been used as an aphrodisiac since the Greeks and the Romans, who believed aniseed had special powers. Sucking on the seeds is said to increases your desire.

Given it’s phallic shape, asparagus is frequently enjoyed as an aphrodisiac food. Feed your lover boiled or steamed spears for a sensuous experience. The Vegetarian Society suggests “eating asparagus for three days for the most powerful affect”.

A symbol of fertility throughout the ages. The aroma is thought to induce passion in a female. Try serving Marzipan (almond paste) in the shapes of fruits for a special after-dinner treat.

Arugula or “rocket” seed has been documented as an aphrodisiac since the first century A.D. This ingredient was added to grated orchid bulbs and parsnips and also combined with pine nuts and pistachios. Arugula greens are frequently used in salads and pasta.

Any Indian dried, powedere herb used as a sexual stimulant in Ayurvedic medicine. The herb has a very strong, garlicy flavor.

The Aztecs called the avocado tree “Ahuacuatl which translated means “testicle tree”. The ancients thought the fruit hanging in pairs on the tree resembled the male’s testicles. This is a delicious fruit with a sensuous texture. Serve in slices with a small amount of Balsamic vinegar and freshly ground pepper.

The banana flower has a marvelous phallic shape and is partially responsible for popularity of the banana as an aphrodisiac food. An Islamic myth tells the tale that after Adam and Eve succumbed to the “Apple” they started covering their “nudity” with banana leaves rather than fig. From a more practical standpoint bananas are rich in potassium and B vitamins, necessities for sex hormone production.

Basil (sweet basil)
Is said to stimulate the sex drive and boost fertility. It is also said to produce a general sense of well being for body and mind.

Broccoli Rabe (And Other Mustard Greens)
The ground seeds of various plants in the brassica family were believed to increase virility. In the case of broccoli rabe its more likely a myth created to get people to eat this bitter vegetable.

The Aztecs referred to chocolate “nourishment of the Gods”. Chocolate contains chemicals thought to effect neurotransmitters in the brain and a related substance to caffeine called theobromine. Chocolate contains more antioxidant (cancer preventing enzymes) than does red wine. The secret for passion is to combine the two. Try a glass of Cabernet with a bit of dark chocolate for a sensuous treat or let us temp you with our recipe for Chocolate Espresso Pots de creme.

(Set of 4 pots de creme cups with matching tray)

Another good reason to eat carrots–believed to be a stimulant to the male. The phallus shaped carrot has been associated with stimulation since ancient times and was used by early Middle Eastern royalty to aid seduction. High vitamins and beta-carotene. Perhaps a justification for a piece of carrot cake?

Caffeine is a well-know stimulant but remember, too much and it becomes a depressant. Serve small amounts of rich dark coffee in special little demitasse cups. Coffee stimulates both the body and the mind so partake of a little in preparation for an “all-nighter”.

Coriander (Cilantro seed)
The book of The Arabian nights tells a tale of a merchant who had been childless for 40 years and but was cured by a concoction that included coriander. That book is over 1000 years old so the history of coriander as an aphrodisiac dates back far into history. Cilantro was also know to be used as an “appetite” stimulant.

In the 1930’s fennel was found to be a source of natural plant estrogens. Use of fennel as an aphrodisiac dates back to the Egyptian times where it was used as “libido enhancement”.

An open fig is thought to emulate the female sex organs and traditionally thought of as sexual stimulant. A man breaking open a fig and eating it in front of his lover is a powerful erotic act. Serve fresh Black Mission figs in a cool bowl of water as it is done in Italy and be sure to eat with your fingers!

The ‘heat’ in garlic is said to stir sexual desires. Make sure you and your partner share it together. Garlic has been used for centuries to cure everything from the common cold to heart ailments. This is a good time for moderation. Enjoy a pasta with a lightly garlicky sauce and it and lead up to something spicy in the bedroom later.

Ginger root raw, cooked or crystallized is a stimulant to the circulatory system. Perhaps a stir-fry with freshly grated ginger can stir something spicy up in the bedroom later.

Many medicines in Egyptian times were based on honey including cures for sterility and impotence. Medieval seducers plied their partners with Mead, a fermented drink made from honey. Lovers on their “Honeymoon” drank mead and it was thought to s “sweeten” the marriage.

Liquorice (licorice)
The Chinese have used licorice for medicinal purposes since ancient times. The essence of the Glycyrrhiza glabra (licorice) plan, glycrrhizin, is 50 time sweeter than sugar. Chewing on bits of licorice root is said to enhance love and lust. It is particularly stimulating to woman.

Believed to stimulate the sexual glands and increase desire. Prepare a tenderloin roast (filet mignon) for two with a mustard and peppercorn sauce.

Nutmeg was highly prized by Chinese women as an aphrodisiac. In quantity nutmeg can produce a hallucinogenic effect. A light sprinkling of the spice in a warm pumpkin soup can help spice up your evening.

Oysters were documented as a aphrodisiac food by the Romans in the second century A.D as mentioned in a satire by Juvenal. He described the wanton ways of women after ingesting wine and eating “giant oysters”. An additional hypotheses is that the oyster resembles the “female” genitals. In reality oysters are a very nutritious and high in protein.

Pine Nuts
Zinc is a key mineral necessary to maintain male potency and pine nuts are rich in zinc. Pine nuts have been used to stimulate the libido as far back as Medieval times. Serve pine nut cookies with a dark espresso for a stimulating dessert.

Rich in vitamin C and and is used in the homeopathic treatment for impotence. Add a spear to a sweet Rum drink for a tasty prelude to an evening of passion.

Raspberries and Strawberries
Perfect foods for hand feeding your lover. “Both invite love and are described in erotic literature as fruit nipples” Both are high in vitamin C and make a sweet light dessert.

The Greeks and the Romans considered the rare Truffle to be an aphrodisiac. The musky scent is said to stimulate and sensitize the skin to touch.

The scent and flavor of vanilla is believed to increase lust. According to the Australian Orchid Society, “Old Totonac lore has it that Xanat, the young daughter of the Mexican fertility goddess, loved a Totonac youth. Unable to marry him due to her divine nature, she transformed herself into a plant that would provide pleasure and happiness.” Fill tall Champagne glasses to the rim and add a vanilla bean for a heady, bubbly treat.

A glass or two of wine can greatly enhance a romantic interlude. Wine relaxes and helps to stimulate our senses. Drinking wine can be an erotic experience. Let your eyes feast on the color of the liquid. Caress the glass, savor the taste on your lips. Do remember that excessive alcohol will make you too drowsy for the after-dinner romance. A moderate amount of wine has been said to “arouse” but much more than that amount with have the reverse affect.


yohimbeYohimbe is the name of the bark of a tall evergreen tree in western Africa known as Pausinystalia yohimbe or Corynanthe yohimbe. Yohimbe bark has been used for centuries in some western African nations for sexual enhancement. For centuries, natives from these areas have ingested both the crude bark and purified compound as a tonic to enhance sexual prowess and as an aphrodisiac. The bark has been smoked as a hallucinogen and has been used in traditional medicine to treat angina and hypertension. The herb is a sensual stimulant for healthy men and women.

Yohimbe’s energizing effects stem from its ability to increase blood flow to the genitals, both male and female. It is thought to stimulate the pelvic nerve ganglia and thus is helpful for men with erection problems. Recent studies suggest the drug may be effective in the treatment of male impotence especially that associated with diabetes. In fact the prescription drug, yohimbine hydrochloride, is approved by the FDA for treating impotence. Effects can include increased libido, increased sensation and increased stamina. Women have also reported similar effects and general pleasant sensations.

When buying yohimbe, try to get pure pharmaceutical yohimbine rather than a product that just uses yohimbe bark. With yohimbine tablets manufactured in a proper pharmaceutical laboratory, you can exactly dose your intake of the active ingredient. On the other hand, with a yohimbe bark product, you’ll always keep on guessing: how much yohimbe do you get? Unfortunately, the yohimbine content isn’t even consistent between production batches of one and the same brand. For this reason, if you want to use the active ingredient of yohimbe bark for sexual enhancement, then look for yohimbine tablets, NOT for yohimbe capsules. The active ingredient uses the ending -bine, while the bark name ends with -be. With the refined alkaloid, yohimbine, you also avoid unpleasant side effects, such as headache, but most importantly, if you buy yohimbine, you know that you get a product that works for sexual enhancement. Ninety percent of the yohimbe bark products are entirely worthless because they contain almost no yohimbine.

Yohimbe may be used either daily or before planned sexual activity. Since yohimbe works quite quickly, it makes sense that it be taken as needed one to three hours before planned sexual activity rather than taken daily. The effects last several hours. Don’t take yohimbe close to bedtime since it can have a stimulant and alertness causing effect for several hours. Also, don’t mix yohimbe with alcohol or stimulant drugs, including high doses of caffeine.

Yohimbe should be used cautiously by anyone with a medical condition, particularly those with unstable hypertension, heart disease, diabetes, or those taking medicines, particularly tranquilizers, antidepressants, sedatives, antihistamines, amphetamines and other stimulants, including caffeine and herbal stimulants such as ginseng. Some of the side effects of high doses of yohimbe include anxiety, changes in blood pressure, heart rate increase, palpitations, dizziness, headache, visual disturbances, nausea or abdominal cramps, increased body temperature and sweating. As with many herbs or medicines, the right dose works well but too high a dose causes side effects.

Kava Kava

kava-kavaKava kava is a natural aphrodisiac that has the effect of directly increasing sexual desire and prowess and even increasing the intensity of the sensations felt during orgasm. Kava kava is obtained from the shrub Piper methysticum, which is native to the Polynesian Islands. It has been used by the Islanders as a religious and visionary herb and aphrodisiac for most of their history. Kava kava can be obtained online if you can’t find it locally.

Since none of the active ingredients of kava kava are water soluble, the natives would pre-chew the roots and then blend this saliva/root mixture with coconut milk. The resulting liquid was then fermented to produce a potent beverage that was used for important rituals. The effect of the drink is to relax spinal activity, producing an euphoric state of relaxation, but without impairing mental activity. Some users also experience a tingling feeling in the genitalia, producing all the ingredients for an interesting sexual experience.

If you would like to try a kava drink without the saliva, mix together in a blender one ounce of powdered kava kava root, two tablespoons of olive oil, one tablespoon of soy lecithin granules, and ten ounces of water. Blend on high for one minute. This amount is enough for 2-4 people.

Kava kava produces no side effects when taken in moderate doses, but its abuse can lead to health problems. Heavy abusers studied suffered from shortness of breath, dry scaly skin, and slight alterations in red and white blood cells and platelets. The reports of alleged liver damage have generally been dismissed, and even the country that hosted the study has repealed their ban on kava kava because it has been proved to be a safe and effective herbal product for almost any age.

Many people have found medicinal uses for kava kava. It is used by athletes as well as businessmen to help “take the edge off” and focus concentration. Kava has been shown to help ease anxiety, depression, and to help produce restful sleep. It’s interesting to note that these are the some of the same effects that a satisfying sexual experience often produces. It seems that no matter how you use it, kava kava will leave you feeling better.