DIRTY LITTLE SECRET FETISHES WE ALL HAVE

DIRTY LITTLE SECRET FETISHES WE ALL HAVE

DIRTY LITTLE SECRET FETISHES WE ALL HAVE
DIRTY LITTLE SECRET FETISHES WE ALL HAVE

DIRTY LITTLE SECRET FETISHES WE ALL HAVE. Most of us have them in the bedroom. You may think you’re the dirty one, but check these types of fetishes and you’ll see how common fetishes really are.

There are many types of fetishes in the world, and every single day, there are new ones being created in our own heads, or in reality.

And thankfully, dirty little secrets like fetishes are more commonly accepted than ever before. Look at the list below and see if you have any of these or maybe you may have thought about.

Common types of fetishes:

Agoraphilia: Getting’ it on out in public is hot, hot, hot!

Alphmegamia: Bring on the older, seasoned men.

Altocalciphilia: High heels make this person orgasm.

Hirsutophilia: Aroused by armpit hair.

Pubephilia: Don’t ever shave for your partner if they’re in this league, because pubic hair is where it’s at.

Exhibitionism: This is someone who enjoys surprising others by exposing their naughty bits.

Latronudia: Doctor, doctor! This person loves exposing him or herself to a physician. The health insurance bills must be staggering…

Lactaphilia: Mammaries full of milk don’t make just babies happy…

Martymachlia: Aroused by having others watch during lovemaking. Get these folks hooked up with a voyeur, pronto.

Nasophilia: This person gets mentally erect about their partner.

We all have our own ‘dirty little secrets in bed’!

You may have heard or familiar with some of these Fetishes: BBC which is Big Black Cock, Barely Legal, Phonesex, Cuckold, Black Bull, She-male, Age Play, Rape, Milf, Foot Fetish, Humiliation and maybe spanking.

So the next time someone drools over your feet, or obsesses over your undergarments, remember they are as normal as any other human being.

DIFFERENCES BETWEEN LITTLES AND AGE PLAYERS

DIFFERENCES BETWEEN LITTLES AND AGE PLAYERS
DIFFERENCES BETWEEN LITTLES AND AGE PLAYERS

Differences between Littles and Age Players that people often get confused by the two, or consider them the same thing. I don’t consider that the same thing in the slightest. Age-play and littles are similar in many ways and can work wonderfully when used together, but I don’t age-play.

That doesn’t mean I see any problem with age-play, so I hope I don’t unintentionally offend age-players.

Age-play and Daddy Dom/little girl are similar, but also very different. They work so well together if that’s what you’re after, and I think that’s why people confuse the two so easily, as they sometimes seem to mesh into one another. Because a little who is also an age-player will explain what being little is to her, but because she also age-plays, her explanation may be confusing.

 

 

DIFFERENCES BETWEEN LITTLES AND AGE PLAYERS
DIFFERENCES BETWEEN LITTLES AND AGE PLAYERS

So what IS the difference?

Age play to me is more about the role playing of a child at a certain age whereas for a little, being childlike is an innate part of their personality. Even in their “adult” mindset, they still have characteristics that are childlike.

Being little is not about role-playing a certain age, it’s about expressing those inner emotions that you can’t express in your “adult” life… Vulnerability, innocence, dependence. And a little’s way to do this is to act childlike. A little usually doesn’t have a specific age, instead it’ll vary along a spectrum. Factors like the environment they’re in, the people they’re with and their mood may affect how “little” a little is at any given point.

If you ask a little (assuming they don’t age-play) their age, they are likely to either look at you confused, not sure what to answer, make a guess based on how they feel, or they’ll tell you their chronological age. An age player is much more likely to know exactly what age they are playing.

An age-player is more playing the role of a child, role-playing a child at a specific age… If you ask an age-player her/his age, then you will usually receive a concrete answer of the age they are playing.

Usually, a little won’t snap in and out of their little mode straight away, it’s a progression into it and a progression out of it. Age players tend to be much more flexible in clicking into their childlike role and back out.  

Littles make wonderful age players because someone who is naturally childlike can of course pull off the role of a child seamlessly. I do not age-play, but that doesn’t mean little’s don’t age-play… many little’s are age-players. 

THE DADDY LITTLE FETISH KINK

THE DADDY LITTLE FETISH KINK

The Daddy Little Fetish kink is a funny thing because it is simultaneously the most misunderstood and most accessible form of kinkiness. People either immediately love, or hate it. I’ve been told its disgusting and also that it is “not real kink” because it is “mild” (ha!). Ironically, the dual nature of its reception speaks volumes for the fetish itself. It is both gentle and harsh, kind and cruel, loving and evil.

THE DADDY LITTLE FETISH KINK
THE DADDY LITTLE FETISH KINK
The trouble with kinks or fetishes is that they are, well, fetishized and therefore generally divorced from the people they describe. Many times when people write about, or try to understand, kink they lose sight of the REAL PEOPLE behind the fetish.
“We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly. We grow partially. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present, and future mingle and pull us backward, forward, or fix us in the present. We are made up of layers, cells, constellations.” — Anaïs Nin
To clear up any confusion, the little girl is an adult woman, not an ACTUAL little girl.
Daddy/Little Relationships
Daddies can spoil his lil girl a bit and she doesn’t have to be a complete 24/7 submissive. But a Daddy can always be daddy to his little girl, easily. Daddies love to have their baby girl to be their prized possession and dirty whore. The thrill is owning her completely and having her do all the things Daddy teaches and trains her to do.
To me a Daddy/little girl relationship has nothing to do with age and more to do with the type of relationship the two have together. The Daddy is the nurturer, the safe one and the object of sexual obsession for this little girl.
Little girls tend to be very obsessive about their Daddies. One might even say needy for Daddy’s attention and his body. She may have a successful career, be top in her field but she knows Daddy is always there for her in their private world together. She looks to Daddy for love, comfort and He is her sexual desire. She looks up to Daddy, admires him, and trusts him.
THE DADDY LITTLE FETISH KINK
THE DADDY LITTLE FETISH KINK
Daddy feels needed, adored and worshiped by His little girl. He is almost everything to her. His little girl will do almost anything to please Daddy, to make him happy. She believes that her Daddy knows best and He knows that His little girl loves her Daddy more then anything. Daddy likes to use and experiment with His little girl, to teach her how to fulfill their relationship. He will always listen to her opinions, thoughts and feeling, because He is interested in her mind as much as His is her body. However, when there is an important decision to be made, His will be the final word.
The little girl is, honest and trustworthy to her Daddy and his private thoughts, desires and actions. It will be her place to relax, be naked and be free. She is his to lie with, play with, share with others and teach. She will make Daddy happy; to be a good girl for Daddy gives her the most pleasure.

A list of terms and simple definitions for the CGl world.

Not sure about CGL go here first.

Acronyms-

DD– Daddy Dominant
MD– Mommy Domme
CG– Caregiver
LG– Little girl
LB– Little Boy
LO– Little One
CGL– Caregiver & Little
DDlg– Daddy Dom & little girl
DDlb– Daddy Dom & little boy
MDlg– Mommy Domme & little girl
MDlb– Mommy Domme & little boy
ABDL– Adult Baby Diaper Lover
AB– Adult Baby
DL– Diaper Lover
LDR– Long Distance Relationship
SSC– Safe Sane consensual
RACK– Risk Aware Consensual Kink
BDSM– Bondage/Discipline Dominant/Submissive Sadism/Masochism
D/s– Dominant/submissive
NSFW– Not Safe For Work
SFW– Safe for Work
SO– Significant Other

Vocabulary-

Little– a little is a person who mentally (or physically) feels younger than they physically are. The term little is often a broad spectrum. It can cover all types of individuals who feel they are younger than their physical age. A little is roughly around the ages of 0-12. We don’t set these ages in stone because not every little has an age and not every little feels they represent the above listed age.

Middle- a middle is a person who mentally (or physically) feels younger than they physically are. The term middle can fall under the little broad spectrum term. It is also known as Lolita & Nymphet. They tend to be mentally older than littles, more around the teen ages. So around 13-17. Once again ages are not set in stone because not every middle has a set age and not ever middle feels they represent the above listed age.

Dominant– An individual who is the “top” in a BDSM relationship or BDSM spectrum relationship. They tend to be the person who makes the rules, and doles out the punishment. They are also the protector of their submissive.

Submissive– A Submissive is an individual who is the “bottom” in a BDSM or BDSM spectrum relationship. They tend to be the person who receives the punishment and have to follow the enforced rules. They are the protected.

Switch– An individual who enjoys being both a Dominant and a submissive. They are known as a switch because they “switch” roles sometimes within their relationship or with a different partner.

Daddy Dom– a person who prefers a masculine identifying title, sometimes takes on the role of a Dominant but can be the submissive as well. Usually the caretaker for a little.

Mommy Domme– a person who prefers a feminine identifying title, sometimes takes on the role of a Dominant but can be submissive as well. Usually the caretaker for a little.

Caregiver– a non gender specific title that represents someone who sometimes takes on the role of a Dominant but can be a submissive. Usually a person who takes on a care taking/caregiving role to a little.

Master– A term that is used for a person who tends to only strictly play a Dominant role. They can be the Dominant of a little, submissive, or pet.

Big– Another non gender specific title that represents someone who sometimes take on the role of a Dominant but can be a submissive.

Little space– The head space a little finds themselves in during their transition, regression or when they become their little persona. Some littles are always littles and always in little space. For others it’s something to regress into.

Middle space– The head space a Middle finds themselves in during their transition, regression or when they become their Middle persona. Some Middles are always Middles and are always in middle space. For others it’s something they regress into.

Agender- Someone who has no gender. They are genderless.

Gender Fluid– A person who flows between gender. They tend to not have a set gender preference. One day they feel one way, another day they feel another way.

Gender Neutral– A term that does not specify gender. It does not favor male nor female.

Genderqueer- An umbrella term for all genders other than man and woman, or someone who simply identifies as another gender, a queer gender.

Sister– A term commonly used in Poly families, for a person who Identifies as female and is an addition to the CGL group. They can also be a little, middle or ABDL but not always.

Brother–  A term commonly used in Poly families, for a person who identifies as a male and is an addition to the CGL group. They can also be a little, middle or ABDL, but not always.

ABDL– As stated above ABDL means Adult Baby Diaper Lover, people who identify themselves as an ABDL will commonly wear diapers and prefer to be treated as more infantile/baby/toddler ages. If a person wants to be treated like a baby but does not want to wear diapers they will call themselves an AB if an individual enjoys wearing diapers but not being treated like a baby they will often refer to themselves as a DL

Androgynous- A style of clothing or appearance, androgyny is also a type of genderqueer, the state of being in between man and woman, or both man and woman.

Demiboy-Someone partly a boy, and partly something else, without defining that other part.

Demigirl– Someone partly a girl, and partly something else, without defining that other part.

Sexuality Terms & Defintions-

Poly– An individual who is capable of loving more than one person at once. They prefer the company of multiple people but not necessarily all at once. They also are not always sexually involved with their poly family members. It can be a non sexual relationship.

Heterosexual– A person who is sexually attracted to an individual of the opposite sex.

Gay/Lesbian– (better term other than homosexual???) An individual who is attracted to the same sex.

Bisexual– A person who is sexually attracted to individuals in the same sex as well as the opposite sex.

Asexual– A person who has no sexual feelings or desires towards another person.

Pansexual– An individual who has the ability to be sexually attracted to a person no matter their gender.

Aromantic– A person who lacks the desire or interest in romantic feelings towards another person.

Panromantic– An individual who has the ability to be romantically attracted to a person no matter their gender.

Demisexual–  An individual who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.

Demiromantic– An individual who only experiences romantic attraction after developing an emotional connection beforehand.

Kinks and their definitions-

Pet Play- a form of role playing that involves a person taking on the role of a pet and another taking on the role of the Master. Common examples are kitten, puppy and pony.

Teacher/student- A form of role play that involves a person taking on the role of a student and the other the role of a teacher and acting out a sometimes sexual scenario.

Rope Play- A kink that is not always sexual in nature but involves a person being bound, suspended, or tied in some fashion with ropes.

Impact Play- A kink that involves spanking, flogging, cropping, paddling, or anything that involves “impact” on the body. (most commonly used in the CGL realm as spanking) This kink is not always a sexual kink.

Wax Play– A kink that involves playing with heated and melted wax in safe conditions. Where an individual willingly pours hot wax (specialty bought for this purpose) on their partner or themselves. Certain waxes need to be used to prevent harm. This kink is not always sexual in nature.

Age Play– a type of role play where an individual acts out an age younger than they physically are. They are playing out a role. Because of this they are not considered littles.

This list of terms and definitions has been CAREFULLY created by our blog and team. PLEASE do not use this as your own work. You are welcome to re-blog and share but do not steal our hard work! Please and thank you!
-The Playground-

mommy TT

I know its wrong, but I can’t help but watch my son as he walks through the kitchen with his morning hard on. I shouldn’t, but I love to dress in the sexiest and most provocative outfits I can find. I like to see him stare at my full, perky breasts and my nipples as they peek through a low cut lacy bodice. His tongue slowly traces his lips and he tries to adjust his cock under the table. I am such a tease, it makes me feel powerful to see him squirm. Of course, it would never go past a tease. That is just wrong.

Suddenly, I feel my son’s strong young arms wrapped around my slender waist. His warm mouth is on the back of my neck. It all happened so fast. Before I knew it, he had me on the top of the kitchen table. I told him to stop, but he wouldn’t. He said he couldn’t take my teasing anymore. He had to taste my sweet pussy.

He then forced me to spread my legs wide open. We were both surprised to find that my pussy was already dripping wet. The smile on his face to discover that I wanted it too made his cock grow harder. He pushed his long slender fingers inside my wet pussy and began to finger fuck me. Oh it felt so good! And his mouth! My goodness, this kid sure has some skills.

Then he made me pull down his pants. To my pleasant surprise, his cock was huge. The size and length far surpassed his wimpy father’s tiny cock. He pulled me close to him and told me to hold on tight. Next I could feel him drive his cock deep inside my wet pussy. I wrapped my legs around his waist and enjoyed the ride. My son pounded me until I felt my warm juices flow all the way from my pussy down to my inner thighs. That’s a good momma’s boy, fuck me harder!

As a young boy, did you fantasize about fucking your mother?

demean a female

There is no better way to demean a girl, make her slip into a ‘little’ mindset, than an order to suck on her thumb. It takes away her ability to speak, has her indulging in an oral fixation, and treats her like a little girl all at the same time.

Getting her to do that, while something sexual is going on, however, is where the really powerful stuff lies. Picture it, for a moment, if you will.

Her back is arched, the soft silk of the blindfold over her eyes feeling almost coarse as she shifts, her hair making the slip of material adjust over her eyes. Her nipples were points, angry nubs accusing the heavens as her chest thrust out.

He was between her legs, that tongue doing its job with more gusto than she had perhaps anticipated. He’d grown to know her too well, know which part reacted how, what did what and exactly what reaction he’d get when he did it. His big hands, strong fingers, dug into her hips, kept her grounded.

She wanted to moan, to scream out her pleasure and frustration as he alternated between indulging and teasing her. She wanted to cuss and swear, let forth a torrent of expletives and filthy phrases. She wanted to call out his name, the name that only she used.

The thumb in her mouth stopped that, but only that. It started the blush on her cheeks, the way she squeezed her eyes shut in case she caught sight of her hand quite so close to her face, had to actually think about it there. It made her cheeks hollow, because she couldn’t help but suck. Couldn’t help but swirl her tongue around her thumbnail.

Not that she could help much right now. At his mercy didn’t even cover it.

cam phone

I will admit I am a bit of a voyeur at heart. I have started out my window late at night in hopes someone has left their blinds open and I can catch them doing something nasty. I have caught a few guys masturbating which only makes me start to touch myself as well.
So when a guy asks if I will watch their cam while they are masturbating or doing something extra naughty it only makes me think I am being a voyeur and looking in on them. Ok I have their permission but we just pretend I don’t.

Like last night this guy was telling me all about the sexy panties he was wearing well course I said well why don’t you show me. So he sent me that little video request super fast. There he was in all his sheer pink thong prettiness. Rubbing his small dick in those pretty panties. I couldn’t help but laugh. He was modeling them for me and everything. Getting up and showing me just how good his panty boy ass looked in a pink thong.

I wish I could say it was super exciting to see his panty clitty come out for me to see but it was super small so I could only giggle at it. But I did have a great time talking to him and watching him on cam.

So for those of you out there that are looking for a phone girl to watch you be naughty and kinky I am definitely the girl.

Call Me!